This blog is about my journey of dating and eventually marrying a young widower. He lost his wife to cancer in 2007 and began pursuing me before fully embracing his grief, although now he seems to have moved through the stages of grief for the most part. It has not been an easy road loving a widower, so I began this blog with the intent of sharing my life that it may help other women, that they may know they are not alone.
The people in my blog:
Superman = my boyfriend/fiance, who happens to be a widower
Superboy = my boyfriends toddler son
_______ = the late wife (haven’t decided what I’m calling her yet)
Why so many superlatives you ask? He loves Superman, and with all he’s survived in life he believes he’s pretty tough. His son is very much him, even at 5 years old, so then he becomes Superboy.
My name is PerfectWomanXs2 because one day Superman and I were talking about how I wouldn’t be second best or less than his late wife, and he said I’d be his perfect woman part II. I responded by saying I wanted to be his perfect woman times 2. When I started the blog, that came to mind as a name, so I used it! Honestly, I’m pretty humble. :) I don’t think I’m perfect!