Posts Tagged ‘dating a widower’
the first trip “home”
Posted by: Author on: July 14, 2008
So Superman, Superboy and I did the 4 hour drive to see my parents, sisters, brother-in-law and kids. It was the first time any of them had met Superboy, and the first time my sister and her family had met Superman. I have to say it went better than I ever expected.
My family has been [...]
our first social gathering
Posted by: Author on: June 13, 2008
So this past weekend, we had our first social gathering that we attended with the 3 of us. It was a birthday party for a young boy in our church, and many of the people in attendance had known Superman’s late wife. So while some people have seen us at church together, I think it’s [...]
thank God for fathers
Posted by: Author on: June 12, 2008
I have some good news today! (I’ll get to the topics promised in my last post in the next few days.)
Yesterday Superman met with our pastor, as he does on a regular basis. I’ve known my pastor for 8 years, and he is a father to me as he is to Superman. One of the [...]
the conversation part II
Posted by: Author on: June 11, 2008
The story continues . . . .
So the last thing I said in my previous post was that he had been thinking that if she had lived, his life would be on track and he wouldn’t be dealing with his financial troubles, his son being away, etc. He said that he misses her and what [...]
the conversation part I
Posted by: Author on: June 9, 2008
In the last 3 days I’ve lived about 2 weeks worth of posts! Much has happened with Superman and I, and I’ll be telling you about it over the next couple days.
I went to his house this past Friday after work, even though I wasn’t sure I wanted to. He had seem uninterested in me, [...]
doubt creeps in
Posted by: Author on: June 6, 2008
Needless to say, my relationship with Superman has entered into a bit of a rough patch. I called him today and I was telling him about some work related issues that I was dealing with, and he was rather non-responsive, almost bored.
Which is something I’ve noticed lately. Yes, we’ve been dealing alot with the “widower” [...]
presently it’s more struggle than joy
Posted by: Author on: June 4, 2008
Today I found myself wondering if my relationship with Superman is ever going to have lasting happiness. At times it just seems so difficult I begin to lose hope. In my research and reading what other partners of widowers have had to say, I know I am in one of the most difficult periods right [...]
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